Oaktree Retirement Village, located five kilometers west of Knobble Hill town square, sits on the old Copeland farm. Its quiet streets lined with immaculate gardens guarded by cheerful ceramic gnomes. It’s in this peaceful setting that Harold Atwood, a semi-retired electrician and handyman, found both a purpose and a unique place in the community.
With a significant number of widows in the village, many of whom had lost their husbands years ago, Atwood quickly became an invaluable presence, offering practical assistance where needed.
“Men generally take care of home maintenance- changing light bulbs, tightening taps, that sort of thing. I know that might sound old-fashioned, but we come from a different era,” Atwood told Knobble Hill News from his modest one-bedroom flat. “There are a lot of women here who need help around the house, and I’m happy to do what I can.”
Residents appreciate his generosity.
“Just to call an electrician or plumber can cost 400 rand before they even start working!” said Beryl Johnson, a longtime village resident. “Harry never charges a call-out fee, and if it’s a small job, he won’t even take a penny. Lovely man.”
A New Chapter in Life
Beyond the practical support, Atwood formed deep friendships with many of the residents, sharing cups of tea and long conversations about life, love, and memories of their late partners. Over time, some of these friendships evolved into companionships, with Atwood providing not just handyman services, but emotional and personal support as well.
“I was married for 41 years, completely devoted to my wife,” he shared. “Before she passed, she told me to keep on living, and that’s what I’ve tried to do.”
“Then one day, one of the ladies gave me Viagra and suggested I take it before my next visit.”
As he spent more time in the village, Atwood realized that many of the women were longing for a deeper connection, something they hadn’t experienced in years. “Then one day, one of the ladies gave me Viagra and suggested I take it before my next visit,” Atwood recalled how the relationships began to become more physical.
“I realized that many of the women had needs that hadn’t been met in years. I was completely honest with all of them about having multiple partners, and they were all very understanding,” he admitted. “With so few men in the village, most of the ladies were just grateful for the companionship.”
Health Concerns and Community Awareness
However, concerns arose when Dr. Wren Stewart, the village physician, noticed an increase in certain medical conditions among some of the residents. On further discussion, it became clear that Atwood had been a common link.
When asked about his own health, Atwood acknowledged that he had been advised to take a step back.
“I do have a few health issues, and Dr. Stewart has suggested I abstain,” he admitted. “I know I should be more careful, but I also have a pacemaker, high blood pressure, and arthritis- I don’t know how long I’ll be here, and I believe life is for living. The women know the situation, and for those who still wish to carry on, I’m happy to oblige.”
Atwood’s story may be unconventional, but at its heart, it is about companionship, purpose, and human connection in a stage of life where many feel forgotten. For the residents of Oaktree, he is more than just a handyman- he is a friend, a helper, and, for some, a second chance at happiness.